The problem of student debt is becoming widespread one. Many people go to college to get degree, but after graduation, they find themselves in a big trap on how to find job and at the same time, worried about the incured student debt. The question some parents are asking is whether there are other ways to go to college without student loan. The answer is yes, although these other means require more sacrifice. In the following series of posts, I will show various ways of getting college degree without being in debt. Watch out for the posts!
Thursday, June 4, 2015
Tuesday, June 2, 2015
Walter Okpala: Parents sustaining their adult children
Walter Okpala: Parents sustaining their adult children: One of the barriers to financial planning is parents over-sustaining their adult children. There is a trend worldwide, on the average, that...
Parents sustaining their adult children
One of the barriers to financial planning is parents over-sustaining their adult children. There is a trend worldwide, on the average, that the older generations are have better economic conditions than the younger ones. As a matter of fact, this trend does not mean that older generations were wealthier than the younger generation. Although there are more job opportunities today, only the highly qualified candidates can secure them. While the older generations were able to get job with only high school diploma, getting a weel-paying job today requires college degree in some specific disciplines. That means that not all college degrees can assure you job and descent income to sustain yourself. What this trends also means is that those without college degree or with low-paying college course do not make enough for their living. As a result of this problem, many adult children live with their parents, even if they may have a higher level of education than their parents.
Parents should give support to their children when needed. However, over-sustaining your adult children without limit is a bad decision. This is because the adult children enter into comfort zone and do not struggle anymore. In many cases as witnessed in developing countries, adult children get married and start having children under this condition. What was to be a temporary help becomes a right. Many parents struggle with this, but do not know what to do because of the emotion involved. They generally say: "how can I send my children and grandchildren to sleep on the street"?
This over-dependence poses financial burden on the parents. Most of them are retired, but cannot enjoy any minute of their lives anymore. I know many retirees who spend their pension on medicines for themselves and the rest on sustaining their children and grandchildren. Their pension finish 2 days after receiving them. In some cases, the parents go back to work in order to help while their adult children cannot get regular jobs.
It is important for parents to understand the financial implications of over-sustaining their adult children. Although help should be given, there has to be a time limit attached to it. On the contrary, you cannot live your life. The irony is these younger ones cannot make the same sacrifice their parents are making. Look at the cars they ride, the smart phones they use, and video games they play to understand their behavior.
So, live your life. Do not live your life for others!
Sunday, May 31, 2015
Walter Okpala: Status quo as a barrier to financial planning
Walter Okpala: Status quo as a barrier to financial planning: In this post, we are going to look at status quo as a barrier to financial planning. I know many people will be surprised as how status quo...
Status quo as a barrier to financial planning
In this post, we are going to look at status quo as a barrier to financial planning. I know many people will be surprised as how status quo can contribute to lack of financial planning. Status quo means remaining in the same state in which one is found, whether the situation is good or bad. In other words, we call it comfort zone. No one can make any significant progress in the comfort zone. In science, comfort zone really means a zone or condition in which one spends the minimum energy. Everything nature works in a way to conserve the maximum energy and spend the minimum. On the other hand, chemical reactions do not generally occur under minimum energy condition. We need to add more energy in order to activate the reaction.
Using this concept from science, comfort zone is what makes the subconscious mind comfortable. However, we need to activate our subconscious mind if we want to change what is inside it. Subconscious mind is a chemical reaction activated by emotion, images, desperation, etc. Many people do not have the ability to activate their subconscious mind. As a result, they are not able to make any changes even in difficult times. Why do some people kill themselves instead of adjusting their lifestyle when their income is reduced? Why do many people use credit card and continue accumulating debt? Why do some people choose a low-paying carrear course in college? Why do many adult children live with and depend on their parents?
Although many will give different reasons such as lack of information, lack of financial education, lack of opportunity, etc., the main reason is the inability to make a change. Lack of eduaction or information, or opportunity may be the cause of the problem, but does not explain the reason for not making the change. Making a change is a behavioral issue. Changing the behavior of a person is very difficult because it involves changing what has been fed into one's subconscious mind. Resistance to change is the greatest human defect. Some people go for financial repairs counseling only when the situation gets worse.
Why should someone continue spending money when he knows his income has been reduced? A person does that because he feels comfortable with that. Reducing your expenses requires discipline and throws one out of his comfort zone. The same thing can be said of credit card debt. In the case of a low-paying carrear, many complain about this but continues in the same job. They do not make any move to change the situation. They are afraid of the unknown. Status quo is a disease inflicting some of the educated people. The uneducated people are not aware of the opportunities around them. However, some educated ones have a lot of information, but do not use them to change their lives for better. The case of adult children living with their parents imposes a burden on the finances of their parents. In some cases, parents go from taking care of adult children to taking care of their grandchildren too. This will be the topic of the next post.
Status quo is a barrier which many have to fight against in order to have your finances planned or repaired. Defeating status quo implies making a change in your habit. The more you procrastinate it, the more you are drowning into debt. Consider changing your habit today!
Saturday, May 30, 2015
Walter Okpala: Lack of financial education as a barrier to financ...
Walter Okpala: Lack of financial education as a barrier to financ...: In my earlier posts, I have tried to explain some of the reasons why some people don't have financial plan. Today, we are going to look...
Lack of financial education as a barrier to financial planning
In my earlier posts, I have tried to explain some of the reasons why some people don't have financial plan. Today, we are going to look at another reason for not having financial plan - lack of financial education.
Although having money is considered the most important
task, having financial education cannot be neglected. Many people think they can do without having a financial plan, this is an illusion because money is very volatile.
Even with a plan, we can make a mistake, imagine not having one. Financial
education is very important to financial planning.
It is unbelievable that something
of such great importance is not taught in any level of formal education. We are
taught many different subjects in schools except the one which deals with how
to manage the result of our sweat or hard labor. Is it not ironical to hear that? We go to
school to have knowledge and, consequently, use the knowledge to make money.
But, after obtaining the knowledge and money, we don't know how to use the money wisely.
“Everything
is taught in school except how to manage the result of our sweat”
How can one study with the objective of making money,
and after obtaining knowledge, won’t have the right instrument to manage the money
derived from the study. Personal finance is so important that it is supposed to
be taught right from primary education level. The reason for early engagement is
that understanding the importance of managing one’s personal finances from
childhood turns the child into a future financially responsible adult. Most of the financial problems people have today have their roots from lack of financial education.
If educated people did not have financial education, imagine the uneducated. Financial issues are generally left to be solved by those in the financial market. However, these professionals study corporate finance. Some of these professionals are themselves in a mess when it comes to managing
their personal finance. The reasons for the mess are two-fold. Firstly,
corporate finance professionals deal with finance and investment in a highly
standardized format while personal finance deals with day-to-day decision about
what to buy or what not to buy. The problems arise in a disorganized way and there is no standardized way or formula to solve personal finance problems. Secondly, corporations
have reserve funds which give them protection while most individuals live from
paycheck to paycheck.
Personal finance or financial planning for
individuals should focus its attention to the problems and challenges faced by
the majority of the population. Examples of these problems or dilemma are:
(a)
what should a person do in a situation of rising food costs? Does he or she have
to buy cheaper brands, buy alternative products, or look for a cheaper grocery
store?
(b)
How should one react in the face of increasing house rent? Do you move to a
cheaper house in the same neighborhood or move to a cheaper neighborhood? Do
you go back and live with your parents or do whatever it takes to earn more?
(c
) what do you do if the school of your children increases the school fees while
you are on the same salary? Will you transfer your children to public school,
send them to a cheaper school, or continue with the same school and buy a used
car or move to a cheaper house?
(d)
what would you do if your child was born when you were unemployed
and live on a
rented house? Do you take any job you see or run to your in-
law to help you?
(e)
how would you proceed if your grown-up children could not find work after
college?
(f)
what do you do if your son and his wife keep on requesting for money from you as
a result of their low salary? Do you turn your back against them or do you help
them?
(g)
what do you do if you find out that your grown-up child does not want to work?
Would you send him out of your house?
At first sight, the above highlighted points may
seem the issues related to counseling rather than financial. However, all has
financial implications which affect one’s personal finances and, consequently,
your financial planning. The essence of financial education is to teach and
prepare an individual in making the best decision when exposed to the common
day-to-day financial challenges of life. Financial education does not eliminate
the problems, but provides one with the right tools to make the best decision.
Personal
finance mainly involves administrating one’s income against expenses. For a
salaried worker, the income is basically the salary. Remember the example I
gave in my post about the effect of people around you. Some of these workers give financial advise to others, but cannot manage their personal finances adequately.
The day-to-day expenses people struggle
with are mortgage payment, car lease, house rent, high tech products, school
fees, groceries, apparel, entertainment, and personal maintenance costs. While salary
is generally fixed if one is lucky to have one, cost of living is always
changing because of inflation, law of demand and supply, market trends, effect
of international politics, etc. The scenarios which affect personal finance and
spending are complex that only people with good understanding of them can be
saved. Those who do not understand the above mentioned variables will fall prey to others easily. A person without financial education does not have the necessary tools,
and this poses a barrier to financial planning. Lack of financial education affects majority of the world population.
Although formal education does not provide financial education, you can get it through specialized training companies. It is very important you go for it. It makes a lot of difference in the life of a person. Think about this!
Friday, May 29, 2015
Walter Okpala: Financial planning - the effect of lifestyle
Walter Okpala: Financial planning - the effect of lifestyle: In my last post, I gave examples of how people around you can affect your financial planning. The people around you can also affect your li...
Financial planning - the effect of lifestyle
In my last post, I gave examples of how people around you can affect your financial planning. The people around you can also affect your lifestyle. The examples I gave in my last post about buying the same cars and living in the same neighborhoods illustrate this.
Lifestyle is a way of living chosen by
an individual or a group of people. One may decide to live a conservative or an
extravagant lifestyle. Extravagant lifestyle may
be good if you wealthy and have a very stable income. On the other hand, conservative
lifestyle is adequate if you are on low-income. For example, a Ferrari car of $1
million may be compatible with a multi-million income of a CEO of a major
company (Apple, Facebook, Google, hp, Exxon Mobil, JP Morgan, Citi Group, etc.),
but looks extravagant for a worker on an annual salary of $500,000. Therefore, your
lifestyle has to be compatible with your income in order for it to be
sustainable. At a first lok, one would say think a yearly income of $500,000 is enough to buy one a Ferrari over 5 years of work. This is where the temptation starts. The problem is not only buying a Ferrari car of $1 million, the car tax on that, the cost of insurance, and the maintenance add up to another heavy expenses. To worsen the whole thing, you need to belong to the elite club of Ferrari owners. Remember most of Ferrari car users have investments. They do not depend on salary.
The cost of maintaining an extravagant lifestyle without having the appropriate income for it will put you under financial stress to the point you cannot have any financial plans at all. I used a Ferrari car as an example here. However, extravagant lifestyle can be observed in different levels of the society. It is incredible to observe that about 95% of the population have this problem. Extravagant lifestyle is generally assiciated to the rich. But, extravagant lifestyle is commonly found in the working class and worst in the poorer class.
Many workers live paycheck to paycheck with the hope that their pension after retirement will support them when they stop working. This makes them use any excess remaining from their compulsory contributions on cars, house rents, credit cards, and amenities. Imagine a situation whereby a worker decides to reduce his lifestyle and save money so he or she can retire as a millionaire. This is a hard sell. I will show this with numbers in my next posts so that it can be easily visualized.
The question of the poor is a special case. One of the reasons people give for not achieving something is poverty. However, this is not the case. Many people in the poor class do not know what is building wealth in the first place. They do not have enough, but have the habit of spending everything they have. They celebrate their children's aniversariares every year even if it means going into depbt, they buy expensive smartphones, buy branded sneakers, etc. What makes their case worse is that they never think about investing in themselves or in something that can change their lives.
Recently, one of my cousins in Nigeria was asking me to help him go for a graduate study. He told me he does not have money. However, he sends me message through an iphone while I am using Samsung iphone. Is it not ironical for someone using more luxirious products be begging for help from someone using a less expensive ones?
Lifestyle is a strong barrier to financial planning. It is difficult to correct because it is a behavioral issue. Our behavior is molded by what we have in our subconscious mind. Unless we change what is inside the subconscious mind, we cannot succeed in changing our behavior. This is the reason why many people struggle with changing their lifestyle. Some even go to the point of killing themselves instead of changing their lifestyle.
So, adopt a lifestyle that is compatible with your income. Think about this!
Thursday, May 28, 2015
Walter Okpala: Financial planning - the influence of people aroun...
Walter Okpala: Financial planning - the influence of people aroun...: Another major factor which restrains people from planning their finances is the influence of people around them. The influence people aroun...
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